In the midst of all things spring and planning for a move, I am turning a whopping 37 years old tomorrow. This realization came as somewhat of a shock, because 37 sounds ancient to me, and — I would assume — to anyone younger than me reading this. Due to preconceived and somewhat sheltered notions from my youth, there seems to be a disconnect between someone who could turn 37 and, well, me. I still have fun… I travel, I like to wakeboard, sail, bike and rollerblade, go out with friends, spend my days on campus, and am moving downtown largely so I can drive less and walk more. Which is not what old people do. Turning 37 I can not be.
There is some evidence to the contrary though. Despite my sense that age-wise life is much the same as it was 10 years ago, some recent circumstances suggest my contemporaries and I are in fact wandering out of the “youth” category and toward the dreaded category of “middle-aged”. I have a friend my age whose child will be entering college this fall. I occasionally have discussions about investments and my slowing metabolism. I have been caught uttering phrases like “I remember when candy bars were 20 cents.” The last two medical people I had appointments with looked “barely out of high school”. I am intimately familiar with current mortgage rates. My 20th high school reunion is looming on the horizon. I still go out, but the last time I was out we ended up discussing public health care. I suddenly like brussels sprouts. And recently, it has been often repeated that Schroeder and I went on our first date more than 17 years ago. These are not, after all, characteristics of the young.
So I’m celebrating the beginning of my mid-life crisis by drinking beer at Memorial Union and then cleaning out my garage. Having fun downtown Saturday morning and then researching home insurance quotes. Dipping chocolate fondue at the Melting Pot, followed by a drywall estimate. Youth, followed by age. Fun, followed by reality. Seems kinda fitting.